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Saturday, May 24, 2025

BAMIDBAR, 1:1-4:20, JERUSALEM DAY , SHAVUOT

  BAMIDBAR, 1:1-4:20,  JERUSALEM DAY, SHAVUOT 



This week we start a new Book, Bamidbar, במדברin the wilderness or the Book of Numbers.  It begins with a head count, military census. Males of a certain age individually step forward and are counted. Although individuals, as a totality they represent the nation. Everyone is counted and everyone counts.

The nation is comprised of 12 Tribes. Individual Tribes are encamped around the Mishkan. At the center of the Tribal encampment and its focus is the Mishkan where HaShem lives among us. 

Today, Israel is where HaShem dwells. It is the place to be. I feel at home here.

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The Parshah begins at 1:2-3 with the taking of a military census of all the Tribes except for the Tribe of Levi:

“Take the sum of all the congregation of the children of Israel, by families following their fathers' houses; a head count of every male according to the number of their names.

From twenty years old and upwards, all who are fit to go out to the army in Israel, you shall count them by their legions you and Aaron”.

 It is the Mishkan that unites us. Today, we no longer have a tribal identity. Jews are still a diverse lot. By way of example: Orthodox, Conservative, Reform, Secular, Ashkenazi, Sephardic, Litvish, Chassidic, etc. If you want to know more about Jewish movements, check out the excellent attached work by Sara Metzger. Although diverse, we are still one people, the B’Nai Yisrael.

https://documentcloud.adobe.com/link/review?uri=urn:aaid:scds:US:f877186c-50fb-40d4-a5f0-b84d65af1628

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The men of the Tribe of Levi, the “Levites” or the “Leveim”, לויים, were counted separately and number 22,300 from age one month and on up.

The Leviim have replaced the first born B'Nai Yisrael for service in the Mishkan.  Originally during the time of the plagues when the Egyptian first born were slain, Hashem granted the Jewish first born a special place in their service to God.  However, because they participated in the Sin of the Golden Calf, in contradistinction to the Levites, they lost their special standing.

How would it have turned out if the first born had not lost their special position?

What would have been the status of the Levites?

The Levites have the burden of carrying and protecting the Mishkan, the dwelling place of Hashem.  At Hashem’s direction, the where and the when of His choosing the B’nai Yisrael, that is us, we move on out. 

 And for those of us who have made Aliyah: Don’t think for one moment that it was you alone who decided it was time to make Aliyah.  And don’t think for one moment that there are not still amongst us, people chosen by Hashem who share the burden of carrying His Sanctuary.

The Tribe of Levi served particular religious duties for the Israelites and had political and educational responsibilities as well. In return, the landed tribes were expected to give a tithe in order to support the Levites

 The Levites, referring to those who were not Kohanim, were specifically assigned to singing and/or playing music in the Temple serving as guards and carrying the sacred vessels.


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The Haftarah portion comes from the Book of Hosea, Chapter 2:1-22.

The setting for the Book of Hosea is in the Northern Kingdom where Jeroboam the 2nd is King, at around the mid-8th century BCE.  The Kingdom is very prosperous but continues to worship Canaanite gods and to also perversely worship Hashem using golden calves as an idolatrous representation.

Hosea uses his personal life as a metaphor to describe the fractured relationship between Hashem and us, and perhaps between the two Jewish kingdoms. It may be a foretelling of the fate that was to befall a divisive Jewish people in the years soon to come.  

Hosea learns that his wife (in the role of Israel) is an adulteress, a prostitute.  As a symbol of Israel’s estrangement from Hashem, Hosea names one of their children Lo-ruchamah, which translates as "not pitied", and another as Lo-ammi, which translates as "not my people"

These children as well as the kingdoms of Israel and Judah are redeemed at 2:3.

It is a positive message of reconciliation.

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COUNTING THE OMER

Adapted from Rabbi Shimon Jacobson:

This week’s Sephirah is Malchut or Sovereignty

Malchut is a state of being rather than an activity.

Malchut manifests and actualizes the character and majesty of the human spirit. It is the very fiber of what makes us human. Malchut is a sense of belonging.

You know that you matter and that you make a difference. It tells you that you have the ability to be a proficient leader in your own right. It gives you independence and confidence and a feeling of certainty and authority.

When a mother lovingly cradles her child in her hands and the child's eyes meet the mother's affectionate eyes, the child receives the message that I am wanted and needed in this world. I have a comfortable place where I will always be loved. I have nothing to fear. I feel like a king in my heart. This is Malchut, kingship.


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JERUSALEM DAY

When I was a kid growing up in Brooklyn, the public school system celebrated Brooklyn Day.  It was held on the first Thursday in June, a welcome day off from school, even though we did not have a clue about the why’s and wherefores’. 

 

Now I am in Israel.  I do not celebrate Brooklyn Day.  I celebrate Jerusalem Day which falls on the 28th day of the Hebrew month of Iyar.  This year the 28th of Iyar begins on Sunday evening of the 25th of May. 


 Jerusalem Day commemorates when in 1967 the divided city of Jerusalem became one.  Two year ago thousands of Jewish celebrants  paraded through the city waving Israeli flags.  The march culminated in a spectacular demonstration through the Muslim Quarter.  Israeli police  sealed off entry to Palestinian residents for their own safety. Those Palestinians who live in the Muslim Quarter were encouraged to close their shops and stay indoors.


What will happen this year?

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JERUSALEM DAY

 Sunday evening, May 25, the 28th day of Iyar marks the beginning of Jerusalem Day.  It commemorates that in 1967 Israel gained control over the entire city as part of the Six-Day War.

Jerusalem Day is a religious holiday as is Yom HaShoah, Yom HaZichoron, and Yom Ha'atzmaut. The day is very much celebrated by Israel's Religious Zionist community with parades and additional prayers in many synagogues.

The military victory over the surrounding Arab armies is regarded as a bona-fide miracle worthy of thanksgiving.

This victory clearly affects the entire Jewish people. Israel is a place of refuge for all Jews , and serves as a source of deep Jewish pride throughout the world.

Jerusalem Day ( יום ירושלים‎) is an Israeli national holiday commemorating the reunification of Jerusalem and the establishment of Israeli control over the Old City in the aftermath of the June 1967 Six-Day War. The day is officially marked by state ceremonies and memorial services. 

Religious Zionists recite special holiday prayers including the  Hallel prayer.  Various Jewish groups follow differing practices.  Personally, I avoid praying with a group that does not celebrate Jerusalem Day.

I consider them to be anti-Zionist or worse.

In opposition to the Jerusalem Day celebration, many Muslims worldwide celebrate Al-Quds Day which falls on the last Friday of Ramadan. Al-Quds is an Arabic name for Jerusalem. 

On May 15th Muslims celebrated their Day of Catastrophe, Nakba Day. It is in opposition to Israeli Independence Day, Yom Ha'atzmaut. Israeli independence is equivalent to an Arab catastrophe.

My friends and I always celebrate the Naqba catastrophe with a l'Chaiim or two.



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WHERE DOES ISRAEL STAND TODAY?



This is an excerpted Opinion Piece published by Aljazeera in 2015. The analyst, Sharif Nashashibi summed up where the Israeli government stood then.

In the years since his analysis the political parties have changed, but his message today if anything would be more bleak and very much the same B”H:

“Arguably the most right-wing, extremist government in Israel's history - and that is saying something - consists of five parties: Likud, Jewish Home, United Torah Judaism, Shas and Kulanu. ( And that was 10 years ago  in 2015.)

Between them, they either explicitly rule out a Palestinian state, or accept one with conditions that make the likelihood of its establishment, let alone its viability, impossible.
These conditions include:
Israel keeping East Jerusalem,
being recognized as a Jewish state,
and keeping the largest settlement blocs,
which are built on the West Bank's water aquifers and most fertile land, and hinder the territorial contiguity of a Palestinian state.

That [Palestinian] state, meanwhile, would have to be demilitarized and renounce the rights of Palestinian refugees.”

I THINK SHARIF HAS NAILED IT: ALL THIS SOUNDS PRETTY GOOD TO ME! Shavua tov

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I'm getting ready for Shavuous which starts Sunday evening the 1st of June  For me the dairy foods are a killer. I'm talking the about the store-bought or home-made cheesecake and the home-made eggplant parmigiana, macaroni (organic) and cheese with fried cabbage and onions, and the potato knishes.

I plan to do 60 minutes on the Tyelet tomorrow morning at a fairly good clip for me, trying to forestall the inevitable belly bulge; I know it's hopeless, but what can you do.

Have a joyous Chag (burp!).

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Shavuos commemorates the giving of the Torah.

Rabbi Sacks tells us how the Torah is first given to women before it is granted to men.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sh3iZxKQn3E&t=13s
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The festival of Shavuot begins Sunday night, the 1st of June.  Shavuot marks the giving of the Torah.  In referring to Shavuot, we say: the giving of our Torah “Z’man Matan Torateinu”, זמן מתן תורתנו,

Looking at the word מתן  (giving)you can see in it the word for “gift, מתנה

In our weekly Talmud class some years ago where were studying Tractate Bava Basra, we participated in a discussion at 65a:  A person owns a house that has two apartments, an inner one and a surrounding outer one.  If the apartments are sold, the buyer of the inner apartment does not acquire the right to walk through the surrounding outer apartment. 

However if at the time of the sale of the outer apartment, the owner of the house simultaneously makes a gift of the inner apartment the situation changes.  There is a presumption that when a gift is given, it is given with generosity.  Therefore the recipient of the gift acquires the right to walk through the outer apartment and thereby to enjoy his gift.

In much the same fashion, when Hashem gave us the gift of the Torah, He gave it to us with generosity. It is as if along with the Torah we acquired the wherewithal to enjoy our gift. 

What that wherewithal is I leave it up to you.  There are a multitude of possibilities.  I like to think our gift from HaShem is the ability to have Torah and dwell in the Land of Israel in peace and harmony. 

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                           Ruth in Boaz’s Field, Julius Schnorr von Carolsfeld (1794–1872).

On Shavuot we read the Book of Ruth.

Professor Jacob Wright and Rabbi Tamara Cohn Eskenazi; published an essay contrasting Intermarriage as represented in the Books of Ruth and Nehemiah:

https://www.thetorah.com/article/contrasting-pictures-of-intermarriage-in-ruth-and-nehemiah


Thursday, May 15, 2025

BEHAR-BECHUKOSAI, 25:1-27:34, JERUSALEM DAY

  BEHAR-BECHUKOSAI,  25:1-27:34, JERUSALEM DAY





 In Behar-Bechukosai we read about proper conduct to a fellow Jew:  

At 25:17 -

“And you shall not wrong, one man his fellow Jew, and you shall fear your God, for I am the Lord, your God”.

At 25:25 -

“If your brother becomes destitute and sells some of his inherited property, his redeemer who is related to him shall come forth and redeem his brother's sale”.

At 25:35 -

“If your brother becomes destitute and his hand falters beside you, you shall support him [whether] a convert or a resident, so that he can live with you”.

At 25:36 –

“You shall not take from him interest or increase, and you shall fear your God, and let your brother live with you”.

At 25:37 -

“You shall not give him your money with interest, nor shall you give your food with increase”.

At 25:39 -

“And if your brother becomes destitute with you, and is sold to you, do not work him with slave labor”.

At 25:43 -

“You shall not work him with rigor, and you shall fear your God”.

At 25:47-48 -

“If a resident non Jew gains wealth with you, and your brother becomes destitute with him and is sold to a resident non Jew among you or to an idol of the family of a non Jew.

After he is sold, he shall have redemption; one of his brothers shall redeem him”.

Being a Member of the Tribe is not a bad deal.😃

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At 25.23 we learn just who the Land of Israel belongs to:

 וְהָאָרֶץ, לֹא תִמָּכֵר לִצְמִתֻת--כִּי-לִי, הָאָרֶץ:  כִּי-גֵרִים וְתוֹשָׁבִים אַתֶּם, עִמָּדִי.

"The land shall not be sold permanently, for the land belongs to Me, for you are strangers and residents with Me".

This is a profound idea: the land that we were  commanded to possess as an inheritance is fundamentally not ours because we are only guests.   
Hashem is the only one who truly possesses the holy land.  

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Just as we must rest on the seventh day, so must the Land rest.
At 25:4 -
וּבַשָּׁנָה הַשְּׁבִיעִת, שַׁבַּת שַׁבָּתוֹן יִהְיֶה לָאָרֶץ--שַׁבָּת, לַיהוָה:  שָׂדְךָ לֹא תִזְרָע, וְכַרְמְךָ לֹא תִזְמֹר.

"But in the seventh year shall be a sabbath of solemn rest for the land, a sabbath unto the LORD; thou shalt neither sow thy field, nor prune thy vineyard".

This rest for the Land is called the "shimitah" year.  It is observed in Israel. 

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Jeremiah

In years where there is a single Parsha the Haftarah portion is from Chapter 32 of the Book of Jeremiah which contains 52 chapters in all. The Prophet Jeremiah is a person who has the courage to be disliked.  By contrast, many of us go out of our way to be likable, to be popular, and to not upset the apple cart. We excel in maintain the status quo…not so Jeremiah:

The episode in the Haftarah portion takes place about one year prior to the Babylonian king Nebuchadnezzar destroying Jerusalem or about 587 BCE.  The setting is in a prison yard where Jeremiah has been incarcerated for speaking out against King Zedekiah.

I don’t know how prison yards looked 2,600 years ago or say 1500 BCE.  However you and I have watched enough thriller movies to picture the yard:

There is at least one huge muscular guy working out with an impossibly heavy barbell.  Many of the inmates have separated into groups, such as white supremacist skinheads or blacks or Latinos or whatever. And often there is one inmate who has been tasked with assassinating the good guy.

Returning to the reality of Jeremiah we learn that Hashem tells the Prophet that he will be visited by a close kinsman who will ask Jeremiah if he is interested in purchasing some family property located in the village of Anathoth, about 2.5 miles north of Jerusalem.  It is up for sale.  Jeremiah has been selected as a potential purchaser because 900 years prior at Mt. Sinai we were commanded by Hashem to keep our lands within our family, and not to sell our lands to someone outside of the family.  This commandment is found in Leviticus 25:25 and evidently was and is the rule of the Land:

 כִּי-יָמוּךְ אָחִיךָ, וּמָכַר מֵאֲחֻזָּתוֹ--וּבָא גֹאֲלוֹ, הַקָּרֹב אֵלָיו, וְגָאַל, אֵת מִמְכַּר אָחִיו.

“If your brother becomes destitute and sells some of his inherited property, his redeemer who is related to him shall come forth and redeem his brother's sale”.

The commandment takes more importance in purchasing back land from a non-Jew who had acquired previously owned  Jewish land. We have this today 2600 years later, particularly in Jerusalem, where Jewish individuals such as Irving Moskowitz, z’l, or Jewish organizations purchase land from Moslem landowners.

Jeremiah’s situation is somewhat different. He has been commanded by Hashem to purchase land that for all intents purposes is worthless. It is only a matter of time that Jerusalem will fall, many of us will go into exile and the real estate market will be in shambles.  This not a matter of buying low and selling high.  It is a matter, however, that Hashem will right the wrong, and Nebuchadnezzar’s days are limited, which is indeed what happened. In just a short time later, Cyrus the Great defeats the Babylonians and welcomes Jews to return to the Land.

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When there is a double portion the Haftarah reading is from Jeremiah 16:19-17:14 - 17:7 - Blessed is the valiant one who trusts in Hashem; and Hashem shall be his trust.
 בָּרוּךְ הַגֶּבֶר, אֲשֶׁר יִבְטַח בַּיהוָה; וְהָיָה יְהוָה, מִבְטַחוֹ.
This is one of my favorite verses in the Birkat HaMazon.
17:14 -Heal me, Hashem, and I shall be healed; save me, and I shall be saved; for You are my praise.
 רְפָאֵנִי יְהוָה וְאֵרָפֵא, הוֹשִׁיעֵנִי וְאִוָּשֵׁעָה:  כִּי תְהִלָּתִי, אָתָּה
This is one of my verses from the Amidah, Shemonah esrai
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GETTING UP IN THE MORNING

When we first wake up in the morning the following prayer is recited:

מודה אני לפניך מלך חי וקיים שהחזרת בי נשמתי בחמלה

 רבה אמונתך

“I thank you, living and ever living king, for You have returned my soul within me with pity. Great is your faithfulness”.

Is חמלה compassion, mercy or pity? I think “pity”.

This conclusion is based on Tractate Menuchot 53b, where חמלה is found:
“I have heard your voice, and I will take pity”.

This is what Rabbi Seltzer has to say: If pity means that Hashem puts his faith in me even though I may not deserve it than I agree.  We thank Hashem for the great gift of life and understand that He is displaying faith in us by doing so even though we may not feel like we are worthy of His faith.  That sounds more like "pity" then compassion or mercy.


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Jerusalem Day (Yom Yerushalayim) is the day that commemorates Israel's re-gain of control over the city in 1967. It is celebrated every year in May or June, with festivities and events held across Jerusalem. This year, Jerusalem Day will begin at sundown on Sunday the 25th of  May and conclude at nightfall on the 26th .


MORE GRATITUDE - JERUSALEM DAY

The evening of May 25 marks the beginning of Jerusalem Day.  It commemorates that in 1967 Israel gained control over the entire city as part of the Six-Day War.

Jerusalem Day a religious holiday as is Yom Hashoah, Yom HaZikoron, and Yom Hatzmaut. The day is very much celebrated by Israel's Religious Zionist community with parades and additional prayers in many synagogues.

The military victory over the surrounding Arab armies is regarded as a bona-fide miracle worthy of thanksgiving.

This victory clearly affects the entire Jewish people. Israel is a place of refuge for all Jews , and serves as a source of deep Jewish pride throughout the world.







Saturday, May 10, 2025

EMOR, LEVITICUS 21:1–24:23,

  EMOR, LEVITICUS 21:1–24:23,



The parsha for this week is EMOR.  In the parsha among other things, there are stated laws that pertain to the Kohanim, and also the festivals of the Jewish calendar, including the counting of the Omer. The mitzvah of Kiddush Hashem is also stated.
Emor concludes with the incident of a man executed for blasphemy, and the death penalty for murder and the monetary compensation penalty for injuring a person.


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In Parshat Emor we learn about the exalted character of the Kohanim and their responsibility to the nation of Israel.  They were our teachers.  

Who are our teachers today? For many of us it is the internet and Google.

https://youtu.be/90WD_ats6eE?si=prlMkNvgumMN3NAJ
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In our prayer service today, immediately before the Kohanim bless the congregation, they recite the following blessing:


ברוך אתה הי אלוחינו מלך העולם אשר קדשנו בקדןשתו של אהרון וצונו

לברך את עמו ישראל בהאבה


"Blessed are you Hashem our God, King of the universe who has sanctified us with the holiness of Ahron and commanded us to bless the people of Israel with love".


In the Ethics of the Fathers, 1:12, Hillel says:
 הִלֵּל אוֹמֵר, הֱוֵי מִתַּלְמִידָיו שֶׁל אַהֲרֹן, אוֹהֵב שָׁלוֹם וְרוֹדֵף שָׁלוֹם, אוֹהֵב אֶת הַבְּרִיּוֹת וּמְקָרְבָן לַתּוֹרָה:


"Be a disciple of Aaron, loving peace and pursuing peace, loving mankind and drawing them closer to the Torah”.

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Jews burned alive for the alleged host desecration in Deggendorf, Bavaria, in 1338, and in Sternberg, Mecklenburg, in 1492; a woodcut from the Nuremberg Chronicle (1493)


At 22:32 we learn:
 וְלֹא תְחַלְּלוּ, אֶת-שֵׁם קָדְשִׁי, וְנִקְדַּשְׁתִּי, בְּתוֹךְ בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל:  אֲנִי יְהוָה, מְקַדִּשְׁכֶם.
"And you shall not profane My holy name; but I shall be sanctified among the children of Israel: I am the LORD who sanctifies you".

This verse is called "Kiddush Hashem, sanctification of the Name". it refers to private and communal conduct that reflects well on us, the Jewish people.

Kiddush Hashem also has an aspect of martyrdom or public self-sacrifice.  This is in accordance with Jewish practice and identity where there is the possibility of being killed for no other reason than being Jewish. There are specific conditions such as forced conversion that deal with self-sacrifice, be it willing or unwilling.

In Hebrew a martyr is known as a kaddosh which means "holy one", and martyrs are known as kedoshim meaning. The six million Jews who were murdered in the Holocaust are known as the Kedoshim.

For Islam there is an entirely different mindset: In the Muslim world the term martyrdom or shahada refers to the Islamic theological doctrine in which believers who give their lives on the battlefield in a military jihad, “for the cause of God” and in furtherance of a military objective of the jihad, do not die but, rather, immediately enter paradise, where they are rewarded for their religious sacrifice.

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In Parshat Emor we learn again about the eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth Law of Retaliation that has come down to mean monetary compensation for inflicting personal injury. There is one major exception: if you murder someone, you are put to death. There is no monetary compensation for taking someone's life. You cannot buy your way out.

At 21:23 we are taught עַ֚יִן תַּ֣חַת עַ֔יִן שֵׁ֖ן תַּ֣חַת”, "An eye for an eye".

This is a principle that is sometimes referred to as reciprocal justice or measure for measure or in Latin, lex talionis, the law of retaliation or possibly equitable retribution. On its face this principle seems pretty straight forward: A person who has injured another person is to be penalized to a similar degree by the injured party.

 

I think the original intention of “An eye for an eye” may have been two-fold:

To prevent excessive punishment at the hands of either an avenging private party or his Family or Clan or Tribe. It served to prevent feuds and vendetta 


To ensure that the standard of care for a wealthy perpetrator, who may wish to buy his way out, is the same as for an improvised person.

 

At the time when we received the Torah at Mt. Sinai there was a Babylonian legal code present in Mesopotamia called the Code of Hammurabi.  Included in this code was the principle of “An eye for an eye”. What the law would have been in Egypt I do not know. 

I do know that 500 years later at the time of the Judges, as shown in 1:5-7 the law of retaliation was still in force. At 1:5-7we cut off the thumbs and big toes of the Canaanite king Adoni-bezek who admitted that he had done likewise to other Canaanite kings.


Looking at the Book of Numbers, Chapter 35: 31-32 except for the crime of murder it may have been possible for a monetary payment, כֹפֶר to be acceptable in place of bodily punishment. Sometime later, it is hard to say when, the lex talionis was "humanized" by the Rabbis who interpreted "an eye for an eye" to mean reasonable monetary compensation.  The Rabbis of the Talmud interpreted it that way. And it is so today.

Question: Is this dangerous ground?  Is the reinterpretation of lex talionis an example of the ability of Judaism to adapt to changing social and intellectual ideas

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 At 24:11 we learn about a blasphemer being put to death:

A man with an Israelite mother, named Shelomith bat Dibri from the tribe of Dan, and an Egyptian father got in a fight, and pronounced

Hashem's Name while in a fit of cursing. The people brought him to Moses and placed him in custody until Hashem's decision should be made clear. 

Hashem told Moses to take the blasphemer outside the camp where all who heard him were to lay their hands upon his head, and the whole community was to stone him, and they did so. Hashem instructed that anyone who blasphemed God was to be put to death. 


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The haftarah portion is from Ezekiel 44:15-31.

The Prophet writes about the Priesthood during the time of the Third Temple.

Some of the changes that he expresses are in conflict with rules regarding the Priesthood as laid out in Parsha. 

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This week we celebrated Passover Shaini, פסח שני which falls on the 14th of Iyar, one month after after the 14th of Nissan, the day before Passover when we were commanded to bring the Passover sacrifice.

This commandment is described in the Book of Numbers 9:1-14. If perchance a person had come in contact with a corpse, he was rendered ritually impure and not eligible to bring the sacrifice.  Passover Shaini in effect gave these persons another chance to celebrate Passover.

It is a custom nowadays to eat matzah on the second Passover, and to remind us that there is always a second chance.

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In the Omer counting this week we have come to Sefirat Hod, whose meaning is as per Rabbi Shimon Jacobson, Humility.. 

This is a snippet of what Rabbi Jacobson has to say about Humility.  It is applicable to many of us Israelis.

Humility leads to yielding, which is an essential element of Humility - should not be confused with weakness and lack of self-esteem.