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Sunday, March 26, 2023

LAWS OF PASSOVER

  LAWS OF PASSOVER





The Festival of Passover will shortly be upon us.  The holiday begins the evening of Monday April 22 and ends in the evening of April 29 in Israel.

In that regard, I would like to present some of the many Laws of Passover to help you get ready for the big event, the Festival of Our Freedom.  It is not meant to be an exhaustive presentation or for that matter an authoritative presentation, but something for you to talk about at your table and put you on the right track.

PROHIBITION OF CHOMETZ


On Passover, not only are forbidden to eat Chometz, but we must have removed any and all Chometz from our possession by the morning preceding the Festival.

The prohibition of Chometz on Pesach is an absolute one.  Not only are we forbidden from eating Chometz, we are even forbidden to feed Chometz to our pets.

What is the basis for the prohibition? Because it says so (Exodus 12:15):
“Seven days you shall eat unleavened bread; moreover on the first day you shall put away leaven out of your houses; for whosoever eats leavened bread from the first day until the seventh day, that soul shall be cut off from Israel”.

First things first: What is Chometz?
When either wheat, barley, rye, spelt or oats have come in contact with or even slightly combines with water, you get Chometz.  We are ordered to remove and/or destroy all traces of Chometz from our possession.


How do we get rid of Chometz?
There is a three step procedure:
1. Sell your Chometz to a non-Jew.
2. Search and destroy: Search on the evening before and destroy by burning on the following morning.
3. On the morning before Passover, declare any possible remaining Chometz to be nullified.
All prohibitions regarding Chometz apply to all the days of Pesach. The Torah prohibits any use of Chometz on Pesach, whether it is eaten, sold or even given away.  Chometz may only be destroyed.

After Passover You have to be careful.  It is forbidden to partake of or purchase Chometz from a Jew who did not sell his Chometz before Passover.  It is a fair question to ask someone if they had sold their Chometz.

* I was always under the erroneous impression that those of us who went to hotels for Passover were in part doing this to get out from under the preparatory laws of Passover.  And if truth be told, I was a little jealous.  But get this from the Rambam, Chapter 2:19 –

A person who sets out to sea or one who leaves in a caravan within thirty days [of Pesach] is obligated to search [for chametz].
 [If he leaves] before thirty days [prior to Pesach], he is not obligated to search. However, if he intends to return before Pesach, he must search before departing, lest he [be delayed and] return Pesach eve at nightfall, when he will have no opportunity to destroy [the chametz]. However, if he does not intend to return, he does not have to search.

COMMENTARY:
Any chametz which he knows about must be removed from his possession (Magen Avraham, Orach Chayim 436:1).

The search is made at night by candlelight before he departs (Magen Avraham). However, no blessing is recited (Shulchan Aruch).

Thirty days before Pesach, we begin "asking and explaining the laws of the holiday."  From that time onward, concern is shown for all the Pesach laws (Pesachim 6a).

SHMURAH MATZAH


Passover is called, Chag Hamatzot – the Holiday of Matzot,  חג המצות .
At Exodus 12:17 the Chumash says:
וּשְׁמַרְתֶּם אֶת-הַמַּצּוֹת, כִּי בְּעֶצֶם הַיּוֹם הַזֶּה, הוֹצֵאתִי אֶת-צִבְאוֹתֵיכֶם מֵאֶרֶץ מִצְרָיִם
“And you shall guard the matzot, for on this day I took your divisions out of the land of Egypt…”
The need for Shmurah Matzah comes from וּשְׁמַרְתֶּם אֶת-הַמַּצּוֹת , “And you shall guard the matzot”.

Why guard the Matzah?
A grain may become Chometz any time after reaping if it has come into contact with water. Therefore from the get-go it must be carefully guarded.  Although we eat matzah all during Pesach, you are only legally obligated to eat matzah on the first night of Pesach in Israel and the first two nights in the diaspora. Of course this does not mean that Chometz may be eaten.

Personally, I like Shmurah Matzah, the look, the taste, and from a subjective point of view I feel “special” when I am eating it.  Maybe for that reason I have always purchased more than I need; it’s similar to prolonging Shabbos.

THE FOUR CUPS



On the first night of Pesach (first two in the diaspora) it is incumbent upon every Jewish man, woman, and educable child to drink four cups of wine in recognition of the four expressions of freedom stated in the Torah in connection with Y’tzias Mitzrayim יציאת מצרים, the going out of Egypt.

The four expressions are found in Exodus 6:6-7:
“Therefore, say to the Israelites: ‘I am the Lord, and I will bring you out (V’hotzeiti  וְהוֹצֵאתִי) 

from under the yoke of the Egyptians. I will free you (V’hitzalti  וְהִצַּלְתִּי ) 

from being slaves to them, and I will redeem you (V’go’alti  וְגָאַלְתִּי
with an outstretched arm and with mighty acts of judgment.

I will take you as my own people (V’lakachti וְלָקַחְתִּי ), 

and I will be your God. Then you will know that I am the Lord your God, who brought you out from under the yoke of the Egyptians.”

There is actually a fifth expression, that a minority opinion holds requires a fifth cup.  Unfortunately I have recently learned that the majority do not hold with this opinion.  It is forbidden to drink the fifth cup.  For many years I had been under the mistaken impression that drinking a fifth cup was tantamount to adding to a Mitzvah, a good thing, a godly thing and in a certain sense being “ultra”. 

 After all, the keynote of Pesach is freedom, and consequently as an expression of freedom the Cup of Elijah has always been, until now, fair game.   
Live and learn.

FREEDOM

It is customary not to pour wine into your own cup.  Symbolically you are free, and someone else will wait on you as you will do for others. The main theme of the Passover holiday is, undoubtedly, freedom. But we must understand what this freedom is all about. Does it refer simply to the end of Egyptian slavery? Is it only political freedom or perhaps only religious freedom?

According to Rav Kook, the difference between a slave and a free person is not merely a matter of social position. We can find an enlightened slave whose spirit is free, and a free man with the mentality of a slave. 

Rav Kook continues: True freedom is when an individual is inspired to remain faithful to his inner essence, to the spiritual attribute of the Divine image within him. It is that quality which enables us to feel that our life has value and meaning.

On the festival of freedom, we openly demonstrate that we feel ourselves to be free in our very essence. Our lofty yearnings for that which is good and holy are a genuine reflection of our essential nature.

It is a very strong custom among Ashkenazi Jews, having the weight of Halakah, not to serve lamb at the Pesach meal. Some will only serve chicken.no beef at all. It all has to do with our mourning for the destruction of the Temple.

However, Sephardi Jews often serve lamb.  And for both groups at the conclusion of the Seder meal, before we say the Grace After Meal (Bircas HaMazon we eat the Afikomen, a kind of ritual addendum to the Passover service.

At the Passover Seder, at our table we eat roasted lamb, and include lamb in Hillel’s sandwich of Matzah and bitter herbs. 



MORE ON FREEDOM




AFIKOMEN - LAMB OR NO LAMB

On the festival of freedom, we openly demonstrate that we feel ourselves to be free in our very essence. Our lofty yearnings for that which is good and holy are a genuine reflection of our essential nature.



It is a very strong custom among Ashkenazi Jews, having the weight of Halakah, not to serve lamb at the Pesach meal.  However, Sephardi Jews often serve lamb.  And for both groups at the conclusion of the Seder meal, before we say the Grace After Meal (Bircas HaMazon we eat a broken piece of Matzah, the Afikomen, a kind of ritual addendum to the Passover service.

The Afikomen is a representation of the Passover sacrifice in the form of Matzah.  The Passover sacrifice from our time in the dessert on up through the destruction of the second Temple was always a whole roasted lamb.  We read in the Haggadah that Hillel, who lived around 30 BCE, ate his lamb in a sandwich of bitter herbs and Matzah.

 On the other hand, in the Passover service we eat Hillel’s sandwich not with lamb, but with an extra portion of Matzah. The rationale for the Afikomen and Hillel’s sandwich not being lamb is said to do with the Temple’s destruction and that we no longer bring sacrifices, lamb or otherwise.  I can understand this.

But I have always wondered how to reconcile the difference between Ashkenazi and Sephardi Jews as to having lamb at the Seder meal.   I understand that lamb may be much more common fare in regions where Sephardi Jews have their heritage, and not so for Ashkenazi Jews.  But I do not think this is the complete answer.

Sephardi Jews, for the most part lived in Moslem lands under the Ottoman Empire where we were tolerated.  This was not the case for Ashkenazi Jews who lived in Christian lands.  It was a sad reality, but we were tortured and murdered for being “Christ-Killers”, and absurd or not Jesus was one of our very own.

Just read what Robin Williams has to say on the subject:
“And people say to me, they say Jesus wasn't Jewish. I say of course he was Jewish. 30 years old, single, lives with his parents. Come on! Work in his father's business, his mom thought he was God's gift! He's Jewish! Give it up”.

Sadly however It is not a stretch to imagine the Church portraying the eating of lamb at the Passover meal as tantamount to ritual deicide of the Lamb of God.  Disallowing lamb and substituting Matzah for Hillel’s sandwich and for the Afikomen probably went a long way in the saving of Jewish lives.  Today, being safe and secure in the Jewish State of Israel I wonder if we should update the Passover service.  What do you think?
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BITTER HERB
Bitter Herb, Maror מָרוֹר refers to the bitter herbs eaten at the Seder in accordance with Exodus 12:8:
 וְאָכְלוּ אֶת-הַבָּשָׂר, בַּלַּיְלָה הַזֶּה:  צְלִי-אֵשׁ וּמַצּוֹת, עַל-מְרֹרִים יֹאכְלֻהוּ

 "And they shall eat the flesh in that night, roast with fire, and unleavened bread; with bitter herbs they shall eat it".

It was a biblical obligation, one of the 613 Commandments, but with the destruction it has become a rabbinic obligation.

The reason we eat moror, or bitter herbs, is to remind us that there was great bitterness in Egypt.  A person should not fool himself into thinking that he can begin to feel this bitterness unless he is quite knowledgeable of the events that took place.  So you should become knowledgeable.

There is a commandment that on a Passover we are to eat Matzah and bitter herbs.  In my way of thinking, the best way to accomplish this is to eat a leaf of romaine lettuce with a teaspoon of freshly grated horse radish root.
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THE TELLING OF THE GOING OUT FROM EGYPT –
The central point of the Seder is the telling of the going out of Egypt, Y’tzias Mitzrayim, The Exodus, יציאת מצרים.  Although the other Passover laws are extremely important, the story of Y’tzias Mitzrayim should be told in great detail.
It is a positive mitzvah from the Torah on the Seder night to tell of the miracles and wonders which our ancestors experienced in Egypt: “And you shall tell your child on that day, saying, "Because of this, the Lord did for me when I went out of Egypt.” 

In order to do fulfill the commandment it is incumbent on each of us to learn what we can about the Exodus.

Saturday, March 25, 2023

BAGELS

 

WHAT IS THE DEFINING CHARACTERISTIC OF THE ASHKENAZI JEW?

 IT COULD BE  COMPASSION AND SOCIAL JUSTICE OR MAYBE NOT?

 



While ridding the household of all chametz in preparation for the Passover holiday, my thoughts turn to the ultimate source of chametz, namely and without reservation, bread.

In Parshat Tzav, Hashem instructs Moshe that as part of Aaron’s inauguration process that he should bring a special grain offering which will be burnt in its entirety on the Altar (6:14).

“On a griddle it shall be made with oil, scalded shall you bring it; a  repeatedly baked meal offering you shall bring it in broken pieces that you will offer it…”

עַל-מַחֲבַת, בַּשֶּׁמֶן תֵּעָשֶׂה--מֻרְבֶּכֶת תְּבִיאֶנָּה; תֻּפִינֵי מִנְחַת פִּתִּים, תַּקְרִיב

I’m thinking, what distinguishes this offering is that it is scalded or boiled before baking.  After very sober serious contemplation, it is my belief that this method of bread preparation, albeit altered by time and geography, has come down to us as part of our esteemed Ashkenazi Jewish heritage.

It is my sincere belief that this bread preparation is what my Yeshivish friends might call the “Ikar” (עִקָר) or essence of who or what we are or have come to be.  What I am referring to is the Bagel.

This ethnic bread preparation first surfaced in Jewish Poland during the 17th century.  Indisputably we are as much the “People of the Bagel” as we are the “People of the Book”.

Bagels for the untutored or if you know, are boiled or steamed before baking. And its circular shape perhaps represents out unending connection to Hashem and that all Jews of whatever affiliation or ethnicity must be included.  Of course, the hole in the middle is a metaphor for our "holiness".

I rest my case.😉

Friday, March 24, 2023

PARSHAS TZAV, LEVITICUS, 6:1-8:36, SHABBOS HAGADOL

 





QUESTIONS FOR THE SHABBOS TABLE
PARSHAS TZAV, LEVITICUS, 6:1-8:36,
SHABBOS HAGADOL




The Shabbos before Pesach is called “Shabbos Hagadol”.  Because in Egypt it was the day when we took the sheep that we would be bringing as our קָרְבָּן, offering. And each of our families tied the sheep to a bedpost, infuriating our Egyptian neighbors.

On that first Shabbat Hagadol, we Jews started on our journey to freedom and liberty; that journey is a continuing one. That was true for them and also for us, 
The Times They Are A Changin'.

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While ridding the household of all chametz in preparation for the Passover holiday, my thoughts turn to the ultimate source of chametz, namely and without reservation, bread.

In Parshat Tzav, Hashem instructs Moshe that as part of Aaron’s inauguration process he should bring a special grain offering that will be burnt in its entirety on the Altar (6:14).

“On a griddle it shall be made with oil, scalded shall you bring it; a  repeatedly baked meal offering you shall bring it in broken pieces that you will offer it…”
עַל-מַחֲבַת, בַּשֶּׁמֶן תֵּעָשֶׂה--מֻרְבֶּכֶת תְּבִיאֶנָּה; תֻּפִינֵי מִנְחַת פִּתִּים, תַּקְרִיב

I’m thinking, what distinguishes this offering is that it is scalded or boiled before baking.  After very sober serious contemplation, it is my belief that this method of bread preparation, albeit altered by time and geography, has come down to us as part of our esteemed Ashkenazi Jewish heritage.

It is my sincere belief that this bread preparation is what my Yeshivish friends might call the “Ikar” (עִקָר) or essence of who or what we are or have come to be.  What I am referring to is the Bagel.

This ethnic bread preparation first surfaced in Jewish Poland during the 17th century.  Indisputably we are as much the “People of the Bagel” as we are the “People of the Book”.

Bagels for the untutored or if you know, are boiled or steamed before baking. And its circular shape perhaps represents out unending connection to Hashem and that all Jews must be included.  Of course the hole in the middle is a metaphor for our "holiness".


I rest my case.😉
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In Parshat Tzav Hashem commands (6:4) regarding the ashes of the olah offering:
 “…and he [the Kohen] shall take out the ashes to a ritually clean place outside the camp”.
וְהוֹצִ֤יא אֶת־הַדֶּ֨שֶׁן֙ אֶל־מִח֣וּץ לַמַּֽחֲנֶ֔ה אֶל־מָק֖וֹם טָהֽוֹר
Before the Kohen performs this mitzvah, he must sort through the ash residue and return any animal part remainder back on to the Altar.  This offering is to be fully consumed by fire.  I assume that outside the camp there were ritually clean and ritually unclean places (for instance a privy).  Even ashes from the altar have a holy status, to be treated with respect and only be deposited in a clean place. Think about the mindset.

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Tuesday, March 21, 2023

 


 


NORTHERN EXPOSURE

By MICHAEL JARON \

 


USE EXTREME CAUTION:

PESACH PREPARATION DANGER



Illustration by Denis Shifrin

There is a commandment to ritually clean certain unused objects (kalim in Hebrew) associated with cooking or eating. This commandment stems from the Book of Numbers, chapter 31, verses 21-23. The ritual process of immersing these objects is called toiveling.

In preparation for the festival of Passover, I had a toiveling adventure that I would like to pass on to you:

I am not a brave man, but when the Chief asks me to do something even though I would be putting myself at considerable risk, I dutifully comply. The rock band 10-cc said it all in their version of “The Things We do For Love”:

Too many broken hearts have fallen in the river
Too many lonely souls have drifted out to sea, 
You lay your bets and then you pay the price
The things we do for love, the things we do for love

https://youtu.be/i-6PnsnBpQE

So on the Thursday before, in preparation for Passover and for Friday night’s seder, I was assigned the task of making ready by toiveling some brand new dishes and a never-used insert for our portable electric oven.

The sea is 200 yards from our Nahariya apartment. I placed all of the items in a large red plastic tub and dutifully trudged down to the water’s edge where I sat the tub down on a rock outcrop and began my labors.

I took out a couple of dishes and the tray and grate for the oven, and sat them upon the outcrop. Then, taking a dish in each hand, I marched into the rolling surf. I said the appropriate blessing, dipped each dish completely into the sea and started back to the shore.

Then, seemingly out of nowhere, a tsunami-like wave smacked into me, spinning me around, and I, tush over teacups, went down while holding on to each dish for dear life. The wave, having a life of its own, continued onwards to the outcrop where it swept up and away the tub and the oven inserts. Courageously fighting the undertow, I lifted myself up and out of the sand and out of my stupor, realized what was happening and shuffled toward the now afloat tub that was heading out in the direction of Lebanon some six miles to the north.

Somehow, in Hashem’s mercy, I reached the tub, tossed in the dishes, grasped its handles and made for the shore. But alas, like Darling Clementine, the tray and grates were lost and gone forever…dreadful sorry. The Chief was not all smiles, but knowing what she was working with, accepted the losses, and we went forward to the best seder ever. I hope that your seders were equally as good.

I told this story to family and friends from whom I have been offered and received much in the way of constructive advice. Much of this sage counsel came from the wise men who sit around the table with me on Wednesday nights absorbing Torah wisdom and taking a "le chaim" or two as part of their absorption process.

I have culled the best of their offerings and put together a list of do's and don’ts when toiveling in the sea:
1. Wear one of those yellow-colored life vests that the flight attendants are always talking about, the ones under your seats, especially those with an automatic homing device.
2. Always carry shark repellent.
3. Never toivel alone; always have a trustworthy toiveling buddy with a reliable cell phone to call the air/sea search and rescue people.
4. One gifted wit suggested that toivelers should be licensed by an appropriate authority and have to pass a toiveling exam where the rules of the road are put to the test.
5. Another good soul suggested that the National Insurance Institute make available a toiveler insurance policy, similar to a homeowner's policy, but with medical coverage.

6. Then there was one fellow, well-meaning I'm sure, who partook only of  soft drinks from our Torah table, who opined: "Never, never drink and toivel at the same time; always toivel responsibly” ... maybe that was always drink responsibly, I don't exactly remember.

The attendees at this study group are serious about religious obligations, doing the mitzvot and following Halacha. They entered into an earnest, but heated discussion regarding the obligation not to pu oneself into danger, and balancing the equity regarding a husband’s duty to keep peace in his home - “shalom bayis”. Putting shalom bayis aside, it was overwhelmingly agreed that by not toiveling when requested by the Chief, you were putting yourself in a far greater situation of peril than if you did what you were told in the first place ... something akin to “Mine is not to reason why, mine is but to do and die." It was a sobering thought - L’chaim.

Chag Sameach,

Mick